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progress report

In home & family life on September 18, 2006 at 1:39 pm

I received an email this morning from Patrick with really good news. He has just received his progress report for the first 4 1/2 weeks of school. He has an A in everything except precalculus ~ and he has a B in that. Pretty awesome grades, considering he’s attending the most educationally challenging high school in the state, and one of the top five high schools in the nation!

I know it’s only a progress report for the first 4 1/2 weeks, but hopefully it’s a predictor of how Patrick will do the over the next 2 years of high school. I know he’s working really hard. Precalculus has been giving him nightmares. He has been going to every precal tutoring session he can get to (at this school, if you don’t go to tutoring there’s something wrong ~ it’s expected that students will attend tutoring sessions). I’m impressed Patrick’s doing as well as he is. He’s not attending an easy school; the work is on a college level, and he’s receiving college credit for several classes.

So, big congrats to Patrick! Keep it up kid, you’re doing great!

old pictures

In close to my heart, home & family life on September 18, 2006 at 12:30 pm

When Roger was helping my dad move the last of his belongings out of storage and into his apartment, he came across a box marked "pictures." Dad was going to throw it away, but Roger rescued it. He knew I would want to look through it.

The majority of the box is filled with pictures from different Episcopal conventions that Dad attended when he was still a priest ~ I think several times he acted as his diocese’s official photographer. But I was able to find a few gems hidden among all of the convention pictures.

There are two binders that contain slides and some negatives. Most of the slides are incredible. I wish I had the negatives for them. There are slides of wildlife, flora and fauna, and a few of me, my mom, and other people from my childhood. Also in the box I found a few pictures worth keeping; one of me with my "pet lobster"

Me_my_lobster_edited (explanation: we went to Maine a lot for vacation, and one year we decided to try steaming lobsters at our campsite ~ I had a great time playing with the lobsters (with rubber bands on their claws, of course) before sending them to their death); two prints of my friend Nettie and a boy whose name escapes my memory sitting on a fence at some farm we went to on a field trip during summer VBS,

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a nice print of my mom, a couple of prints of me from those lovely awkward teenage years of 8th and 9th grade, as well as about a dozen proof sheets (that I wish I had the negatives for).

You see, when I was a kid, we always had a darkroom. Dad and I would develop our film, then print the pictures we liked. It was really cool having our own darkroom. When we lived in New York, the darkroom was in our basement. It was a little damp, but it was workable. When we moved to Montana, we were glad to be able to put the darkroom in a room that wasn’t damp. We lived in the apartment above the church, and the darkroom was in one of the closets downstairs in the main church building. What we didn’t expect was that that room would flood. The first flood destroyed all of our darkroom equipment (including the projector) ~ I can’t even begin to guess at how much all of that equipment cost. The second flood not only took out all of the replacement darkroom equipment, it also destroyed a large portion of the prints, slides and negatives we had stored in there.

Those floods didn’t really mean a whole lot to me until I became an adult. I started thinking about all of the pictures Dad and I had taken, and all of the film and prints we had developed. I had forgotten about the floods. When my dad reminded me that most of the negatives, prints and slides were destroyed in those floods, I wanted to cry. Taking pictures and spending time in the darkroom constituted a huge chunk of my time as a kid ~ and all of that work has been wiped out.

When Roger rescued the box of pictures from the garbage, I was absolutely thrilled. And even though the majority of the box is stuff I will probably throw away anyway, those few gems I was able to locate were well worth the time I spent going through the box, sorting the prints, and holding the slides and negatives up to the light box for viewing.  They’re very precious to me.

The one print/slide/negative I didn’t find in the box was the picture I took when I was 9 years old for a photography contest. My dad and I entered a photography contest the local library was holding. He told me if I placed higher in the contest than he did, he would buy me my own camera. I was determined to do well ~ I really wanted my own camera. And I did well ~ I won first place! Unfortunately, it didn’t occur to me at the time to save a copy of that photograph. When I started asking around about it a few years ago, no one seemed to have a print of that picture. I even called the library that held the photo contest to see if they still had the print. No luck.

Just last week Dad finished unpacking everything. He had 2 boxes of prints and photo mats left to go through; he told me that when he was finished picking out the prints he wanted to hang up in his apartment I could have the rest. A couple of days later he gave me a box full of the prints he decided not to keep; also included in the box were a few snapshots he thought I might want. As I went thorough the snapshots, I found a small "photo album" book. Inside were pictures I had taken of my friends in junior high and high school. But, the very last picture in that booklet made me jump up and down for joy. It was a 3×4 1/2 glossy black and white print of my "award winning" photograph!!

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(please realize all of these photos have been scanned into my computer on my printer/scanner/fax/copier machine ~ they’re not necessarily the best scans)

I also found a gem I wasn’t expecting: a photo of me with my reward camera; a Canon AEprogram ~ a camera I still use occasionally even now.

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I have other "great" prints I plan to scan into my computer and post. I hope you enjoy these old photos and memories as much as I do.

latest health report

In home & family life on September 18, 2006 at 11:16 am

The weather keeps changing here ~ it’s having quite a whammy effect on me. One moment I’ll feel great, then a new weather front will move in and I’ll feel like I’ve been hit by a Mac truck. Right now it’s 67 degrees and raining. The high today is only supposed to be in the high 70’s ~ it’s the rain and the humidity it leaves behind that does me in. Thankfully I have a husband and son who are very understanding and help out with anything and everything around the house.

Sawyer’s knee is healing slowly. We went to the doctor after he "popped" it ~ the doc put him on crutches for a couple of days, then checked the knee again. Sawyer could walk well at that point, so the doc took him off the crutches, but told him he couldn’t do any type of physical activity for a few days. When Sawyer was finally able to try to get back into baseball again, the knee started hurting when he ran. So, he went back to no physical activity ~ this time for 2 weeks. We still have another week to go before we go back to the doctor for another examination. Sawyer is being very good about following the doctor’s instructions. Of course, the doc told him if he didn’t follow instructions he wouldn’t be able to play baseball again at all ~ that’s pretty good motivation to do as you’re told!

Roger’s elbow is still healing. For the most part he has good motion with it and is able to do whatever he needs to do. But every now and then he’ll move his arm just the wrong way, or he’ll try to pick something up that’s too heavy, and the arm will give him trouble. It’s not just his elbow; his forearm and wrist were also hurt when he fell. I think he has had more problems and more pain from the forearm and wrist than he has from the elbow itself.

Roger’s surgery scar is healing up nicely. It turns out that the lump Roger felt in his neck wasn’t a tumor this time. The doctor who removed the tumor in January 2005 used non-disolvable stitches, and he put a stitch through one of the nerves in the facial nerve bundle. I don’t know whether or not he meant to put a stitch through the nerve, but Roger’s immune system didn’t like it one bit ~ it was trying to get rid of the stitch, and that’s why a lump developed. Roger has been pulling stitches out of his scar for over a year. Those non-disolvable stitches worked their way up and out of his body, and they would create a little lump just under the skin ~ Roger would then be able to pull them out. And there was no mistaking what they were ~ they were purple string obviously used as stitches. But the stitch through the nerve was a real problem; it wasn’t able to dislodge itself and work its way to the surface. Unfortunately, in removing the stitch, the doctor here had to cut through one of the nerves. It should heal eventually and not be a problem, but for now the left side of Roger’s face is numb. And he can’t pucker. It’s really funny to watch him try to pucker his lips ~ the left side doesn’t cooperate at all!

Patrick seems to be the only one in the family right now who isn’t dealing with some sort of illness or injury! Imagine that: the child who lives in a 100 year old hospital with about 250 other kids and I don’t know how many adults, who is around a large number of people on a regular basis, is the only one who isn’t sick in some way. Who would have thought?!

engaged

In close to my heart on September 18, 2006 at 11:03 am

My niece and her boyfriend finally decided to make it official ~ Ashley asked Angie to marry him on Friday, September 8. They’ve been together for several years ~ they just hadn’t made any steps towards marriage. We’re all thrilled that they’re going to get married.

Right now the wedding is set for May 31, 2008. Angie wants to finish her master’s degree before they get married. I imagine it will be a beautiful ceremony ~ on a beach in Costa Rica! Lucky girl…………

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rotary club

In home & family life on September 18, 2006 at 10:38 am

Recently the junior class at Patrick’s school was required to attend a luncheon with the local Rotary Club. The kids had to dress up ~ boys in slacks, shirt and tie, girls in a dress or appropriate business-type slacks and blouse. Patrick loves to dress up (for some strange reason), so getting a new pair of dress slacks, dress shirt and tie was actually fun for him (he’s so picky about his clothes, it’s not usually very fun to go clothes shopping with him).

Patrick is also a budding digital photographer, thanks to his Grammy who gave him a small digital camera for his birthday. He had his camera on hand for the Rotary luncheon, and had one of his friends take a picture of him:

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Isn’t he a handsome young man? The girl is Jess, one of his friends at school. (Apparently the entire school ~ all 250 or so kids ~ has decided that Jess is "the cutest girl at school.")

my hope shines through

In Fibromyalgia, close to my heart on September 4, 2006 at 10:13 pm

Look what Rest Ministries has come up with as a rememberance for National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week

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Wow! Isn’t that a beautiful bracelet?! You can learn more about it and even order one by clicking here.