There have been a lot of things going on behind the scenes at our house lately that I haven’t posted about yet. The big scare was when Roger was informed that he had been non-volunteered for a 365 day tour in Iraq. Since he has yet to do a tour in Iraq, and he’s been in the Air Force for 18 1/2 years, we sort of thought he would end up going over to the desert before his retirement. We didn’t expect it to be a 365 day tour, though! (No worries, read the rest of the story…..)
Roger has had back problems for a very long time. He tweaked it really badly when we were in Arkansas last time, and then again while we were in Alaska. Since we got back to Arkansas, his back has been bothering him even more. He has a couple of bulging discs, along with degenerative disc disease. He has had x-rays and MRIs, but they can’t find anything majorly serious, other than the bulging discs.
After Roger was notified that he was going to Iraq for 365 days, he had a doctor’s appointment. He saw a different doctor than he had been seeing for his back (no surprise there ~ it’s not very often you get to see the same doc more than twice in a row in the military). When Roger told the new doc he had a tour of Iraq coming up, the doctor immediately put him on non-deployable status. Apparently the military medical establishment has been getting a lot of flack for sending people on deployments with medical issues that are not resolved before they ship out. They’re having to send a lot of people home early because they have medical problems that can’t be treated overseas. So now the docs are being overly cautious about sending people on deployments. This doc looked at Roger’s records and determined his back problems are bad enough to keep him from going on any kind of a deployment ~ 365 days, 120 days, whatever ~ he just plain can’t go.
To be honest, that was a big load off my shoulders. We’ve done overseas tours before (just not to the desert) when the kids were little. It was very difficult. A lot of the difficulty was probably that the kids were little ~ it was very hard dealing with a 6 year old and a 4 year old all by myself. I have great respect for single parents and working moms. I don’t know how they do it all and stay sane!
Despite the fact that my kids are now 17 and 15 (in a week and a half), I really was not looking forward to going though Dad not being around for a significant amount of time. I know that almost all military spouses have to go through that ~ unfortunately some have to go through it many times over ~ and I was/am prepared to do what I look at as my part of Roger’s service to our country. That doesn’t mean I’d be thrilled about it, or that it would be easy.
So, for now Roger is “safe” from overseas deployment.
Tomorrow Roger will have an epidural steroid shot in hopes of helping the back pain. He has gone through a couple of months of going to physical therapy 3 times a week ~ it didn’t help at all. If this shot works, he’ll have another shot that will hopefully take care of the problem long-term. If it doesn’t work (relieve the pain), then I don’t know what they’ll do. The docs have told him that right now his condition is not operable. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see what happens.
My Suburban is on the fritz ~ again. The mechanics had it for a week, I just got it back Friday, and it started making another noise Saturday. We took it back to the mechanics today ~ hopefully they’ll be able to fix the problem quickly (and with as little cost to us as possible!).
Norma and Larry (my mother-in-law and father-in-law) are coming down for Christmas, which we’re thrilled about. We love having them visit.
I’ve been knitting and crocheting up a storm. I’m working on a pattern right now that, if it works like I want it to, I will post when I’m done with the item.
Our church had its annual Christmas production this past weekend. They did “The Gospel According to Scrooge” ~ a musical adaptation of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. We attended Saturday night. My friend Kathryn played Mrs. Fezziwig, her daughter Caitlin played young adult Belle, her son Christopher played Tiny Tim, her daughter Paige had a speaking part, and her daughters Elizabeth and Grace were in the main choir. Everyone but Mr. Arkanblogger was in the production! Their home was filled with lots and lots of hot rollers, hairspray, stage makeup, and 1830’s/1840’s period costumes!! They all did a marvelous job ~ Kathryn had a small solo part, Caitlin had a good-sized speaking part and sang solo, and Christopher had several solo parts as well as lines. He even had a brace on one leg and a wooden crutch. He got into character quite well ~ he practiced with that brace and wooden crutch so he would have the character of Tiny Tim down just right. Pretty amazing for an 8 year old!
I’m getting my hair cut next week. I know, I know ~ I said I was going to grow it out. And I am. Only not all one length. Roger said (and I agree) that my hair is getting too heavy (or full) right around my cheekbones where the shortest layer hits. I’m going to keep the length, but have the top layers cut. I found a picture in a magazine, which is a first for me. I have such funky hair ~ it’s very full, very thick, and has a natural curl that starts once it’s about 3 or 4 inches long. Plus, there’s a lot of gray, which makes it hard to work with. I don’t do high-maintenance doos, so this one will have to be cut just right. My regular hair stylist, Angie, was blessed with a granddaughter today (congrats, Angie!), so I won’t be seeing her this week. Actually, I had to make the appointment 2 weeks out, and she squeezed me in to the schedule during her lunch break. What a gal!
Patrick and Sawyer both have finals next week. We’ll start Christmas break on December 20, the day before Sawyer’s birthday. This year he asked for tickets to the Trans-Siberian Orchestra performance in Little Rock, and we actually managed to get some. Pretty good seats, too.
It’s looking like it will be another minimum sleep night. Hopefully I’ll be able to get some sleep before Roger and I have to leave in the morning for his surgery (that’s what they’re calling it, even though it’s a shot). He’ll get some happy gas, then a local before they do the steroid shot. I’m tellin’ ya, this shot better hurt more than getting an epidural while you’re birthing a baby! Happy gas ~ I wish they’d been able to do that for me when I was in labor. That would have made things a lot better!

